Happy New Year 2009

Dear All,

Happy New year 2009.

无论在2008年，开心，伤心，喜悦，悲伤，怎样都好，让我们一起迎接新的一年，把这一年做的更好，过得更窝心。。。。

Season Greeting from Canada

Hello everyone,


How are you out there?
I wanted to post something for the past few weeks, but then, my laziness took over my well... Since I am in holiday now, there should not be any excuse to procrastinate for any longer.


King, I shared your excitement and nervous... tell you what, it will be a whole new journey, my best advised now is stock up as much as sleep if you can, you will need them especially during the first month after the baby arrived :-); kidding...



No worry buddy! I think you will do well when the time come, your nervous kind of prepare you for what will happen next... Just stay close and support you wife in any possible ways, she needs you a lot and she is about to bring you the best gift ever! Keep us posting for new update… Best of luck my friend!

Family time and Family time again

Ever since Amber is back to Calgary, I am in the so called typical family life... social activities are reduced drastically, no need to mention about the outdoor activities, it is ground zero ... everything I do these day is "Amber-centric"; it does not mean that I forgot all the friends, but many times when I finished the stuff I need to get done for Amber and around the house... the next thing I want to do is head straight to the bed ... if you don't have any family member staying with you, you will better understand what I just said.



Today, I spent a nice Christmas day at home with my twin sisters, one just moved in after her graduation, another one came straight from KL. The big snow we had few days ago is perfect for holiday season, even though they are still bitching about the cold ;)... Boxing week, it was used to be my crazy shopping season... but this year, I think I am cheap, no shopping plan, but I will spend time visiting friends catching up things with them, save some money and free meals at friend place...


Well, keep blogging, I hope you have a great holiday and Happy New Year!




Best wishes from
Keat-Hau, Helen and Amber

p/s: The attaching link is created by Helen for friends and family... http://smilebox.com/playEmail/4e6a55324f4459354d5877314f5467324d6a59350d0a&sb=1

7 days to go...

It's seven more days to the due date of 'King Junior'...I know I have been bragging about this too much, but...I am just too exited! Eight more days and I will have a gigantic responsibility on my shoulder, for the rest of my life. Any decisions I make from this day onwards, will at least affect three people...at least!

Pressure man, pressure...!

爱一人

爱一人

如果你不爱一个人, 请放手.

好让别人有机会爱她.

如果你爱的人放弃了你,请放开自己,

好让自己有机会爱别人.

有的东西你再喜欢也不会属于你的,

有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的.

人生中有许多种 .

但别让自己为一种伤害.

有些缘分是注定要失去的,

有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的,

爱一个人不一定要拥有,

但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱她.

男人哭了是因为他真的爱了.

女人哭了是因为她真的放弃了.

如果真诚是一种伤害,我选择谎言;

如果谎言一种伤害,我选择沉默;

如果沉默是一种伤害,我选择离开.

如果失去是苦，你怕不怕付出 ,

如果迷乱是苦，你会不会选择结束,

如果追求是苦，你会不会选择执迷不悟 ,

如果分离是苦，你要向谁倾诉,

好多事情都是后来才看清楚,

好多事情当时一点也不觉得苦!!!!

Disaster

Almost reach the end of 2008, everyone is preparing for new year resolution, celebrating year end seasons, or go for holidays, whereas the people live in Bukit Antarabangsa has one more thing to prepare, prepare to move...

I'm also the unlucky one, although not directly affected by the landslide, but still living in the same area, so now what, move, not move, continue to live there, who can give the certain answer whether the place is still safe to live???

Although this is not a good news, but I'm very appreciate that I got some consolation calls from my old friends, who has not seen for some time. Many thanks to them, and really feel warm about this.

Hope every bad things of mine will get rid as the year 2008 finished. Cheers!!

Wish everyone Merry Christmas and Happy New Year coming soon!!

Four more weeks...

Hello guys, how's everyone?

I can't believe it, four more weeks and I am a dad!

Am I ready for the wife going into labour? I don't know...

Am I ready for the arrival of the baby? I don't know...

Am I ready to be a dad? I don't know...

There are so many 'I don't knows' at the moment... is it normal for all new mums and dads? I really hope so or else it will be even more frightening for me!

How did my dad and mum cope when they had me? Tried to throw the question at them but they didn't really gave me a direct answer...maybe it was easier back then, maybe they had family help or maybe, expectations back then wasn't that high. Nowadays, 'second best' is not an option.

Let me give you an example : From what I heard, milk powder are divided into grades : gold, silver and bronze! I don't know about you, but I would not like to be seen with a tin of 'bronze' graded milk powder in my hand, waiting to pay for it in a supermarket check out counter. Other dads and mums will stare at me, probably cursing me for feeding my child something 'second best'. I know it's wrong to be thinking like this but I think 10 out of 10 parents will have this kind of behaviour...or is it just me??

Still too much to worry about...

Watch this space!

It has been a long time since I last posted something, felt really bad about this. A lot of things have been happening around me and also around the world...I promise I will write something in the next couple of days...I promise.

Below is something my dad shared with me a long time ago and now I would also like to share it with you guys:

注意聆听，不只增加知识，而且受人欢迎； 用心办事，不只增加力量，而且容易成功。

Hope you like it!