Busy...

Sorry guys, it's been hectic since the arrival of Abigail, not even time for myself, think I better get used to that, haha...

Promise I will upload some photos as soon as possible...maybe I will teach Abigail to blog, then I can have some 'me' time.

Happy and Prosperous Chinese New Year when it comes!

I AM really sorry.

First of all, before I start, I would like to apologise to all the mothers in the world. Secondly, I would like to tell all mothers in the world : I SALUTE you!

On the 8th of January 2009, I was in the labour ward with my wife, witnessing the arrival of my daughter. The scene was not pretty, not at all! I would not let my wife go through all that again. As a matter of fact, I would not like for any female to go through that...not my daughter...I know I might sound a bit selfish coz I have already got a daughter, but, if you were in the ward with me that night, you will agree with me.

Why am I apologising?

Still remember when I was in high school, we have a small gang of really good friends and we call each other 'brother'. Man, the language we used back then...we were lucky we weren't strike by lightning. Every time we opened our 'smelly' mouth and started talking, I think all mothers in the world started to sneeze. And we thought we were really 'cool' talking like that. For this reason, I would like to offer my most sincere apology, to all mothers in the world.

Again, very sorry.

Since I can't do anything other than wait...

Hello to everyone on the blog! And may I also take this opportunity to wish all of you a very happy 2009.

Since I have nothing better to do while still waiting for the arrival of baby King, I thought it would be a goo idea to write something in the blog.

On Christmas eve, I received a letter from Malaysia. It felt like a Christmas card inside...So, who was so clever? So precise and confident, that the card will arrive just in time? It was my dad, again!! How did he do it? I don't know... Inside the card, there were a couple of photographs. One of the photographs which caught my eyes instantly, was a photographs of a group of secondary school boys posing for the camera - a group of very happy boys! The photograph was in black and white (someone did that on purpose), and if my memory serve me right, it was taken in Mimaland (not sure about the spelling). It doesn't have a date on it, I hope someone from the blog can remember this specific trip and able to tell us more about the trip...

Happy New Year 2009

Dear All,

Happy New year 2009.

无论在2008年，开心，伤心，喜悦，悲伤，怎样都好，让我们一起迎接新的一年，把这一年做的更好，过得更窝心。。。。

Season Greeting from Canada

Hello everyone,


How are you out there?
I wanted to post something for the past few weeks, but then, my laziness took over my well... Since I am in holiday now, there should not be any excuse to procrastinate for any longer.


King, I shared your excitement and nervous... tell you what, it will be a whole new journey, my best advised now is stock up as much as sleep if you can, you will need them especially during the first month after the baby arrived :-); kidding...



No worry buddy! I think you will do well when the time come, your nervous kind of prepare you for what will happen next... Just stay close and support you wife in any possible ways, she needs you a lot and she is about to bring you the best gift ever! Keep us posting for new update… Best of luck my friend!

Family time and Family time again

Ever since Amber is back to Calgary, I am in the so called typical family life... social activities are reduced drastically, no need to mention about the outdoor activities, it is ground zero ... everything I do these day is "Amber-centric"; it does not mean that I forgot all the friends, but many times when I finished the stuff I need to get done for Amber and around the house... the next thing I want to do is head straight to the bed ... if you don't have any family member staying with you, you will better understand what I just said.



Today, I spent a nice Christmas day at home with my twin sisters, one just moved in after her graduation, another one came straight from KL. The big snow we had few days ago is perfect for holiday season, even though they are still bitching about the cold ;)... Boxing week, it was used to be my crazy shopping season... but this year, I think I am cheap, no shopping plan, but I will spend time visiting friends catching up things with them, save some money and free meals at friend place...


Well, keep blogging, I hope you have a great holiday and Happy New Year!




Best wishes from
Keat-Hau, Helen and Amber

p/s: The attaching link is created by Helen for friends and family... http://smilebox.com/playEmail/4e6a55324f4459354d5877314f5467324d6a59350d0a&sb=1

7 days to go...

It's seven more days to the due date of 'King Junior'...I know I have been bragging about this too much, but...I am just too exited! Eight more days and I will have a gigantic responsibility on my shoulder, for the rest of my life. Any decisions I make from this day onwards, will at least affect three people...at least!

Pressure man, pressure...!

爱一人

爱一人

如果你不爱一个人, 请放手.

好让别人有机会爱她.

如果你爱的人放弃了你,请放开自己,

好让自己有机会爱别人.

有的东西你再喜欢也不会属于你的,

有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的.

人生中有许多种 .

但别让自己为一种伤害.

有些缘分是注定要失去的,

有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的,

爱一个人不一定要拥有,

但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱她.

男人哭了是因为他真的爱了.

女人哭了是因为她真的放弃了.

如果真诚是一种伤害,我选择谎言;

如果谎言一种伤害,我选择沉默;

如果沉默是一种伤害,我选择离开.

如果失去是苦，你怕不怕付出 ,

如果迷乱是苦，你会不会选择结束,

如果追求是苦，你会不会选择执迷不悟 ,

如果分离是苦，你要向谁倾诉,

好多事情都是后来才看清楚,

好多事情当时一点也不觉得苦!!!!